Is Ufc Fight Tonight More Important Than Girlfriend Who Is Alone @ Home 4 The Night?
by mmafan on Friday, November 6th, 2009 | 12 Comments
My boyfriend prefers seeing the UFC fight with his buddies tonight rather than driving an hour to see me. I will be alone for the night and he told me he had already planned this event with his buddies, but then again I’m never alone for the night. Does this mean he does not really care about me? I wouldnt mind watching this fight with him, I think it would be fun, but he just doesn’t bring that option up. Help Please I don’t know what to think about this situation.
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Hey, well since he had previously planned this event with his friends, he can’t really bail out on them now. That would make him more wrong than not seeing you one night. It’s probably an important match to him, something him and his buddies have planned for a while now and can’t just throw away the plans, and he just doesn’t think driving an hour to see you while he has all this other stuff going on is reasonable. If he doesn’t bring the option up he either forgot or just wants some space. Give him some alone time with his guy friends, if only for a day. It’s not like he ditched you, he just has other plans for this one night. Imagine if you and your girlfriends were planning on going to the mall for a special 80% off coach pocketbooks (or whatever you like) and he called you saying he’d rather you drive an hour and spend time with him than buy a pocketbook. Which would you rather do? Give him space today. You can go the night without him. But if he keeps it up and isn’t spending enough time with you, then you have reason to be concerned, and should talk with him about it.
I hope I helped,
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Cmon, this is guys time!
Seriously, don’t take it so personally, it would probably be awkward for you in anyway. A bunch of screaming guys, blood, fighting. And most likely after the fights done, your boyfriend will most likely try to imitate those moves with his buddies and look stupid lol. do you want to see your boyfriend embarrass himself? LOL jk.
Well you can bring it up yourself if you think it would be fun. I’m a girl and I love watching UFC, I don’t know you so I don’t know if you’d like it or not. If you end up not liking it, you can always just enjoy 2 sweaty ripped guys rolling around on the ground.
i would spend time with my girl (if she aint never alone for the night) then watch the game some other time if someone records it or if theres a re-run which im sure theyre would be. OR id just fcuk the game and spend time with the girl.
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Tell him that your more important! DAM I wouldn’t do that to my girlfriend. Tell him to look up MMAlinker.com to watch his fights anytime he wants.Maybe he wants to be alone for a while or something? Just tell him to have a good time or tell him that you’ll put out or something.
So the one night when you’re not busy, you expect him to ditch all his other plans and drive for an hour, just because you have deemed to give him some of your free time and didn’t have anything better to do.
No. It doesn’t mean he thinks you are not important. Fight night is only once a month.
If you care about him, it’s important that you give him space and give him time to be with his friends.
James
Simply ask him if you can watch the fight with him. If he says no, then just leave it be. Everyone needs a little time with their friends and I don’t think that is a big deal at all.
he probably thinks you dont want to watch the fights because youre a girl. tell him that. im watching the fights with my girlfriend tonight
Fighting is always more important than a Girl,unless the girl offers some realy goodtoung head,and pussy. Offer him sex.
ask if you can go, we generally don’t think that much
You don’t have anything to worry about. If he decides to go watch the UFC fight with his buddies, let him. Like you said, he planned it, so this means this is something he is really looking forward too. This doesn’t mean he doesn’t care about you. He just wants to spend alone time with his friends. (I’m assuming his “buddies” are all guys) Plus he didn’t invite you for a reason. Whatever it may be, ask him if you can go, it doesn’t hurt to ask. Just don’ t be hurt if he says he wants to just hang out with the guys, be UNDERSTANDING.
I know your going to feel lonely when he does, but plan something with your friends. Why stay home and feel lonely? There will be many more nights when your boyfriend will be busy and not be able or wanting to hang out with you, so make the best of it and enjoy time with your friends.
Now if this is an on going problem, where he has decided to hang out with his buddies over you, then this is a separate issue. Or if you guys rarely get to see each other and he still prefers to hang out with his buddies, then another separate issue. But if not, I hope this was helpful.